life

Again I have neglected to keep up with my blog.  It has been a harsh winter in the midwest and east coast.  My mom is very tired of the cold and snow.  Mom needs help and I can not go on pretending that everything is great here in Arizona.  I have finally given up on my marriage and will move back to Michigan to help Mom, she needs me more than anyone here will including jobs or my kids who have their own lives, both of them have decided to stay in Arizona.  Cody though may also make a big decision about going into the military after he gets out of high school.  Daniel has his girlfriend and she has her family here and I cannot expect them to move with me.  Life is again changing and I will make a new start back with Mom.  I feel relived that this decision has finally been made knowing that this is the best thing I can do for myself.